Shopping your man could be a bit tricky. You want to give him something extra special, that’s a given. You want to give him something he could remember you by, that’s sweet. But also, you want to give him something sensible, something he’d actually have a need for. What could you possibly give him that’s usefully special that works as a gentle reminder of your presence in his life?

Sit still and make a list. You know him best so you’re in a unique position to answer your own question. Think about him and what he likes. Do you know what he enjoys? Don’t go for the obvious. You’re a sorry girlfriend if you never notice peculiar habits. Jot those down and see what you have.

If he smokes either as a habit or as a cigar enthusiast, he’d more likely be fond of lighters. A cheap zippo lighter would be a great treat. Price isn’t always the clincher. Style and design count. Pick one that looks interesting. He’d be delighted.

If he is fond of slogan shirts, get him a really good one-the wackier the slogan, the better. Go for those with political satire or business jokes theme. A witty joke would be fun. Avoid the cheesy dating and romance-themed shirts. Remember who you’re buying the shirt for. Enough said.

mantel clocks would be an excellent gift for a time-conscious guy. Busy lawyers, doctors, bankers, even software engineers and top sales people live by the clock. A barrage of meetings and client visits makes timekeeping indispensable to these men. If you’re man is any one of these, he’d most likely own a variety of clocks and watches. Mantel clocks could be your classy contribution to his little collection.

But if you’d prefer to err on the side of practicality, custom business card holders are among your top choices. You can have it personalized so it’s uniquely him from you. Besides, he’s certain to be carrying it with him whenever he’s out. Every business person carries a wad of business cards around. Getting him custom business card holders ensures you‘re always with him. It might not be too subtle but a gentle reminder nonetheless. And it’s definitely not something he would resent you for.

Finding the perfect gift for him does not have to be a quest. Gifts don’t have to be expensive either. Meaningful gifts are those signed, sealed and delivered with tender thoughts and a promise of forever.